M – Learn some BDSM facts that you will not learn in the movie Fifty Shades of Grey.
BDSM Does Not Always Involve Sex – BDSM does not always involve sex because it is mostly a mental stimulation carried out with physical actions that produces pleasure-pain. The skin organ has arousal receptors sensitive to the touch delivering a full-body intense experience with spanking, massaging, and skin-tight clothes. The mental stimulation is what produces the orgasmic feelings, not the physical sex act.
The Submissive Person Does Have Some Control During The Encounter – The submissive person does not give up their free will during a BDSM scene. They can always say no to a sex act and let the person know they are uncomfortable with something. This is why there is normally a “safe word” established between both parties ahead of time so that the Dom knows what is allowed and what is not. Everything is consensual. No one is forced to do anything they do not like.
Forget The Stigmas – 50 Shades of Grey make BDSM look somewhat stigmatized. The reality is that people are not waking up in dungeons forced to do things against their will. Moreover, it is not a ‘dangerous’ thing to perform BDSM, but more of a kink that gives off the illusion of being held captive with no control. Furthermore, BDSM is not dangerous or abusive at all and is in fact comfortable and fun!
Mentally Healthy People Practice BDSM – Performing BDSM does not mean that you are weird, mentally unstable, or the oddball out of the group, in fact, studies show that it is good for you! A 2013 study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine concluded that most BDSM practitioners are mentally sharp, live with a purpose, and have a higher well-being than those who do not practice BDSM.
BDSM Require Research & Practice – Most people think they can just get into BDSM scene without doing any research or practice what they have seen on television. This is a mistake. but Doing BDSM the right way require much research and practice, unless you have a professional escort or a friend who you trust who can ease into the role and properly introducing you into the world of BDSM. People who do not practice or do research may end up hurting themselves or their partners, so it is imperative to read and learn about the safety precautions ahead of time. Make sure to get information from a variety of sources, including reading books and talking to friends for the necessary knowledge to really get an angle on performing a BDSM scene correctly.
BDSM Is Not A Sexual Deviancy – Some of the most mentally stable and healthy people practice BDSM because it is a normal sex act. There is nothing deviant about it. In fact, TV shows, movies, and music videos feel comfortable showing BDSM scenes on the big screen because it is cool and very fun!
There Are No Limits! You do not have to limit yourself during a BDSM scene because it will take you to new places you never thought possible.
BDSM is all about tapping into a dormant part of yourself and releasing it!